40 year old woman dating 18 year old
They were honestly soulmates who clicked on many levels--they've been happily married for about 6-7 years now (waited until he was done school/got a job) and have a daughter together.We all thought it was the weirdest thing ever, but it worked good for them Not quite the same age difference, but met my husband when he was 24 and I was 18 (and a virgin). Sometimes I tease him about dating an 18 year old, but we're in our 30s now and the age difference doesn't really make a difference.I thought age didn't matter, but it did to her.She'd often talk down to me and make decisions without asking me, such as what we'd do or where we'd go on our next date.I'm 29 and the thought of dating an 18 year old (a child in my eyes) is not appealing.However trying to warn teenagers about anything is usually futile.(If the only place they are spending time together is her apartment, she may not see his age in the way he interacts with the world. Also will this lady have a relationship with you at all? However everyone's different and maybe this woman's intellectual/mental/whatever the correct word is age is closer to 18-20 than (the average) 30-year-old and that is why they got close.Also seeing his teenage boy room might wake her up). Worst case scenario if you get to know her is that you have a good relationship with someone important to your son and you can be there when needed. If that's so, he may "outgrow" her, if it doesn't end for some other reason, as he matures.
Yeah, OP's son is only barely closer in age to the woman than her son.
Don't frame it as she's a bad person frame it as let's talk about finances and how to keep you on track so you understand how to see this stuff.
Some day he will want a shiny car I would be happy he's happy and keep your fingers crossed it will burn out soon.
You may want to include her and her child in family events.
You definitely can't do anything to end the relationship - anything you say will just strengthen their relationship.