Couples therapy after 3 months of dating
Brandon and I had met on a dating app a little bit before I found out. Brandon still wanted to stay with me and he has been with me ever since then. Ellington’s biological dad is still in the picture and he sees him about every other weekend. I had to get a new car, because I was driving a Beetle at the time. If I had known she was pregnant, I would not have gone on the first date.
But I did, and I realized how amazing she was before I figured out the news.
He just jumped in with both feet and was like, ‘alright, let’s do this.’ He’s an incredible dad to Ellington.
I knew he was a great person, but he’s been there for me, and picked up the slack I needed picked up.
, and I was on a trip, and she messaged me and said that she’s crying because she knows that she’ll never ‘have that.’ She was being pretty dramatic, so I thought she had some kind of terminal disease.
I had that kind of sitting in my brain for a few days and she wouldn’t tell me what was going on.
But I thought she was terminally ill, and in reality, she was only pregnant.
In terms of how this affected our relationship, we moved forward with the acknowledgement that we were going to date as regularly as we could.
This definitely helped us to get to know each other better.But it’s a good time to catch up and feel like we’re dating again – Yeah. Brandon gets me flowers every month and I get him a card every month. We try to say hi and give each other affection when we first see each other when we’re leaving for or coming back from somewhere.One of the things that we did, and then dropped the ball on, but are going to start doing again, was proactively going to couple’s therapy.,’ a column where parents frankly talk about how their sex lives shifted after they had children and what steps they took to recalibrate their relationship. Couples have less time to devote to one another, When Ariel and Brandon Pierpoint met, Ariel was already five months pregnant.However, she didn’t know it — and wouldn’t for another month.