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Most bartenders I know are close to my daughter's age...What if she has a great career but doing it as a side job? I'm done with partying with friends every weekend and wasting money on drinks but I don't want to stay at home doing nothing. I could be out and have a good time and earn money at the same time.Before you cross over that customer-server line, here are some things to consider: You’re going to have to find a new bar. Unless you like the idea of spending every night together watching him while he works, you’re going to have to switch things up a bit and start drinking somewhere else. Take it or leave it, a big part of his job is to chat up women at the bar and make them feel comfortable.Finding a new place to hit the town with the girls can be a hassle and if you are really attached to said bartender, you might consider resisting the urge to go out altogether. If you’re not ok with the idea of him pouring shots for the ladies and singing along with them to the latest Guetta song, you definitely need to look elsewhere. While you can always meet him at work, chances are if the bar is crowded you’ll be sat on your own and your conversation will be anything but seductive and romantic. Chances are they already know, if, God forbid you hooked up in the bar bathroom, but if not they will soon, as bar staff are often a very tightly closed group who like to share and share alike. I just so happened to be month-to-month in my current place and open to it, so I scribbled out my info and slid it across the bar. We don’t give out our numbers to customers — because, see first bullet: “we get hit on all the fucking time.”Don’t make it confrontational.
Most importantly he’s a good talker and can make you smile, but STOP. You can’t forget that while he might be the most faithful loving guy when it’s just you and him, at work it’s part of his job to talk to people and many of those people will be other women.5--You gotta have something a little extra goin' on for you if you expect a chick bartender to go out with you if you're just a customer. BY Anonymous We’ve all been there: that cute, tall, handsome guy behind the bar can at times seem utterly irresistible.Oh, they may be "90 per cent straight" like an old woman tender freind of mine once said about herself, but that doesn't mean they don't like to rub panties with a special girlfriend a few times a year.3--Most of 'em aren't looking for a longterm relationship.