Dating a really thin guy

I can't compete with a girl who has that and can talk about electronic music or something, nor do I want to really, that stuff isnt my thing and as I want a corporate job I can't go round dressing and acting like the ideal hipster girl. I can easily get bigger but I need to know what girls *really* want because there's so many mixed messages out there. Sorry to be rude, but it seems like you may need to mature rather a lot before being able to have an actual relationship with a real woman.

Probably your attitude It's the same as when fat girls say "why don't guys date fat girls," 99% of the time there are plenty of guys out there willing to date fat girls, just not the ones who have a bad attitude My attitude is fine, I actually get attention from girls but not the hot girls. Sorry to be rude, but it seems like you may need to mature rather a lot before being able to have an actual relationship with a real woman. Unless your objective is to sleep around, in which case fair enough.

Plus maybe it's just the ones I've met (and this is specific to me liking indie guys I guess) but they have very unconventional taste in women from what I've seen, they don't seem to like "cookie cutter" girls but those with short hair and tattoos and unusual clothing seem more attractive to them.

I can't compete with a girl who has that and can talk about electronic music or something, nor do I want to really, that stuff isnt my thing and as I want a corporate job I can't go round dressing and acting like the ideal hipster girl. It's teeming with hipster guys in skinny jeans with conventionally looking girls.

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You deserve someone who wants to kiss you in public.

In my entire life I've never seen a conventionally beautiful girl with a skinny guy. These skinny guys are seen as "cute" but kinda asexual. I guess this is where the cheerleader-jock pairing comes from. Go out there and actually talk to as many hot girls as you can as I'm sure one of them eventually is going to have a thing for skinny guys. Because I'm sure you haven't and just want to complain about an imaginary problem that doesn't exist.

They always seem to go for masculine, muscly, tall strapping jock types. I do cheer and am OK looking and I prefer skinny hipster/indie looking guys TBH they don't seem like women who lift though even if they aren't bulky (possibly because they don't lift themselves).

I know I'm being shallow but as I said you only get to be young once and I want to see around for a bit while getting really hot girls. Unless your objective is to sleep around, in which case fair enough. I'm simply saying the hot girls don't like me, other girls do, so the message seems to be that I'm not attractive enough. Perhaps it's your attitude that is the problem rather than your appearance?

My attitude is fine, I actually get attention from girls but not the hot girls. I'm simply saying the hot girls don't like me, other girls do, so the message seems to be that I'm not attractive enough. Perhaps it's your attitude that is the problem rather than your appearance? I don't want an actual relationship, that's the thing... Which in this case attitude doesn't mean much and it's more about generating raw attraction.

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