Dating former high school classmate carolyn farb dating hewlett
Everything else was fairly normal - but you pointing out that you have lacked male role-models in your life, and are dating someone old enough to be your Dad ..you are saying that you I'd say NAH until you went this way and started making it weird.So you're saying you have daddy issues and he's basically your father figure?I didn't realize how fucked up the age gaps were until I was older and not looking at the relationship with those biased rose-colored new-relationship glasses. It feels a bit odd to me too, and it is likely Vanessa will be unhappy, but you and he are both consenting adults and what we here think about the age gap does not matter in the slightest.If you and he are both happy and treat each other well, who gives a **** what random strangers think.Also I can't really imagine a relationship with a 31 year age gap being in any way healthy, but you're doing this to yourself so noone is the asshole (except maybe the 57 year old hitting on his daughter's friends). NAH, but you don't get to complain if Vanessa hates you for it and never speaks to you again.NTA because Ure a grown ass adult who can do what she wants to and u don't really owe Vanessa anything. What you are doing is legal, and for reasons I don't fully understand social conventions consider it to not be immoral, but Vanessa has every right to think whatever she wants about it and about you and her father.YTA and so is your 'boyfriemd ' Half his age plus seven. 35 is the youngest he can date YTA without it being creepy. Vanessa and I were in-between being friends-acquaintances during high-school and I occasionally hung-out at her home when here dad was present.We exchanged messaged, he asked me out and we initially kept it casual but recently we decided to be exclusive. For context: My dad died when I was 4 and I had no male influence/role-model for my entire upbringing. You're in a relationship with two consenting adults.
If she is going to take it poorly, time will only make it worse.We exchanged messaged, he asked me out and we initially kept it casual but recently we decided to be exclusive. For context: My dad died when I was 4 and I had no male influence/role-model for my entire upbringing.We are enjoying our time together but still haven't told Vanessa (who I haven't had contact with since HS) and no this isn't a sugar-daddy, gold-digger thing.Not sure why you felt the need to add that your dad passed away... I'm a 26F and for the last 4 months I have been seeing the father (57M) of a former high-school classmate.It makes it seem like you feel a little insecure about your relationship. For reference 38 should be your upper limit on the creepiness thing. The man's name is Nick and his daughter's name is Vanessa.