Dating website that urges married people to have an affair
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I’m not going to say that having an affair makes you a horrible person.
Almost always, everyone loses in an affair, whether it is a meaningless one-night stand or even a short emotional affair via Facebook messaging. The author of the novels, Divorced Girl Smiling and Free Gift With Purchase, Pilossoph also writes the weekly dating and relationships advice column, “Love Essentially”, published in the Chicago Tribune Pioneer Press and the Chicago Tribune online.
Even if the affair turns into a love that you call “the love of my life,” it isn’t pretty. Because what is supposed to be the beauty of true love will always have a stain on it with someone else’s pain. Check out, “Women Dating Over 50: Are We In No-Man’s Land? Additionally, she is a Huffington Post contributor.
I can’t count the number of people who have an affair, and then don’t have the self-awareness to say, “Hmm…I hurt my spouse deeply and now I owe him or her an apology.” Instead, they think, ‘The marriage was over anyhow’ or ‘I didn’t really think he or she would even care. No matter how ugly the divorce is, sit down and tell the spouse you cheated on that you are sorry you hurt them in that way.
He/She never even looks at me anyhow’ or the worst one, ‘It just happened. You don’t have to say you are sorry you cheated (especially if you aren’t) but imagine how much good you would do to just apologize for the pain, for the embarrassment, for turning your spouse’s life upside down–even if there are feelings of resentment for lots and lots of other things.