What a wondrous gift they give us --we get to see what we believe by the people we keep attracting into our lives.If we continually keep attracting someone who cheats on us, then somewhere in our unconscious is the belief that we do not deserve someone who is faithful and we are cheating our own selves out of having what we really value. If we don’t like what we see in that mirror, we can then change ourselves to attract what we want. Are you currently in a relationship that doesn’t seem to be going anywhere and causing you to feel stuck and helpless? Could you have misperceptions like: “I will never find someone else to love;” “I’m too old to start over;” “My kids need both parents to stay together;” “But...he/she really can’t live without me.” These are all fear- based rationalizations that we have been taught to use to keep ourselves stuck.
Meet a lot of people and do this and a dating strategy will work a certain percentage of the time. A dating technology is a full understanding of the subject.
When you make friends with your fear and know that it is there to spur you on to better things, you release its paralyzing hold on you.
You now become free to step into your new life and experiences, allowing them to come to you in the most delicious ways. Know that relationships are here to teach us about ourselves and show us how we want to be treated.
That energy is like the invisible electric current that lights and energizes our houses. You also give off a light that says, “This is how I want to be treated.” Your actions vibrate how you want people to treat you.
Sometimes you shine so brightly that you could light up your entire city and allow anything you desire to be yours.