Handsome guy dating ugly girl
The study compared real users, such as the ones pictured below, to illustrate that while men can judge two women’s relative attractiveness to be similar on average, it’s the women whose numbers skew either to the far left or right that get the most messages.
In short, the girls that guys deem either hot or hideous—but not so-so—are the ones who get approached the most. Here’s Rudder’s the highly scientific hypothesis:, it means less competition.
So how have these men accomplished the so-called impossible?
These men accepted that something needed to change.
Getting swamped with messages drives users, especially women, away.
sought to find out exactly why that is by talking to various people from both sides who've found themselves in this 'unequal' pairing.
A lack of human connection causes constant suffering. It makes you bitter, resentful, angry, and even violent towards others or yourself. I’ve personally watched countless ugly men attract women that society deems beautiful. Men who were previously 50 or even 100 pounds overweight.
Or guys who were born with asymmetrical faces, bad skin, wide-spaced eyes, genes that made them bald in their 20s, and the dreaded weak chins.
Ultimately it was hard because other people made it hard.
For Harriet*, the mathematically good looks of the model she'd discovered on a dating site (and had had a crush on since she was a teen) couldn't make up for his "mental and unpredictable" behaviour which first reared its head when he left her eight drunken missed calls - after their first date.