How to go from dating to serious relationship
If you’re feeling confused, the following questions might help you think things over.
The lines between these early stages of a relationship are often blurred. Going on a couple of dates with someone is not the same as dating that person.
If, after four or five dates, you would feel upset or hurt by them going on a date with someone else, it’s time to have the talk.
On the other hand, if you still like the idea of dating other people and keeping your options open, you can’t expect them to be exclusive to you. If you’re not too bothered, you can wait a bit longer or until they express their wish to commit in this way.
Before we explore the realms of exclusive and official relationships, it’s worth taking a breath and discussing some of the more subtle points.
And if things have become physical by this point with sex or other intimate experiences having taken place, this definitely signifies a move to seeing someone rather than dating them.
For example, if your second date involved a long summer’s day spent relaxing in a park or at the beach, followed by dinner and drinks…
…it’s a bit different to if you simply grab drinks for an hour or two after work.
The sheer amount of conversation you can get through in an entire day can help build bonds far quicker than if it’s spread out over multiple dates.
Yes, there may be lots of messaging back and forth between dates, but that cannot compare to the volume of words exchanged in person. More discussion leads to quicker decisions about whether or not you like this person and whether you want to see them again.