Survival guide to dating
When I get asked how to date men in an era that is supercharged with an anti-male sentiment, it’s not enough for me to say “don’t worry, there are some great guys out there!
Putting your desires out there may feel like you’re ruling people out, but putting what you want front and center actually acts as a handy filter.
My answer to this question is always “it depends.” The truth is that you don’t have to educate anyone if you don’t want to or if it feels like it will be a burden on you and the relationship.
But if you see potential and your interactions with a person suggest that they’re decent human beings who just didn’t learn about feminism, then, by all means, feel free to share resources and personal experiences.
This will be intimidating to the kinds of men who are a terrible fit for you.
You get to filter out guys whose ideals and values don’t align with yours, and they will (mostly) leave you alone.